Possibilities and Options for Unmarried Couples
Not every family involves a married couple. Many couples develope family units without entering into marriage. Couples holding themselves out as boyfriend and girlfriend, couples in long-term committed relationships, or older couples who do not choose to marry for financial reasons can find themselves facing legal issues similar to those of married couples. However, the law may treat them differently than married couples.
When you face family law issues related to a non-traditional relationship, I can help explain your options. I have represented many unmarried couples work through these issues to reach an equitable result.
- Child custody and parenting time: The rules governing child custody and parenting time are generally the same for unmarried couples. The court makes determinations that are based on the best interests of the child, while considering statutory factors. These factors include the time each parent has spent with the child, the child's health and educational needs and, in some cases, even the preference of the child. For more information on custody and parenting time, see our resources page.
- Paternity: Paternity can be established voluntarily or through paternity testing. An acknowledgment of paternity is generally sufficient to establish paternity if this issue is uncontested. I can help protect your interests in a paternity case.
- Child support: Once paternity is established, child support may be ordered using the Oregon child support guidelines. I will review your proposed child support order to ensure it complies with Oregon law and fairly considers all relevant income.
- Division of property when a relationship ends: Property division is often a big issue when a relationship ends. I can help you evaluate your options for dividing assets, liabilities and determining which assets are not subject to division. These issues often depend on the type of relationship and current Oregon law.
I have experience in a wide range of legal issues for unmarried couples either beginning or ending a committed relationship. I provide compassionate and caring counsel to help you make difficult decisions.
Contact a Lawyer
Every family is unique. While the law appears clear, the facts in your case can change the outcome dramatically. To learn how the law may apply in your specific situation, you should consult an attorney. Contact me at my Salem office by calling 503-371-7800 for a confidential consultation.









